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“My Wife is Absolutely Opposed”

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Recently, Father Evan Armatas was fielding telephone calls on Orthodoxy Live when one listener called in with a particularly vexing dilemma. The caller wants to become Orthodox, but his wife is dead set against the move. Father Evan gave some really good answers — answers that may surprise some listeners.

Brian from Cincinnati asked:

I have a difficult life situation. I thought maybe you could give me some words of wisdom.

You’re speaking with someone who’s been a Calvinist for about fifteen years, and in the last three years of intense study, and prayer, and reading of the early Fathers I’ve become convinced that I need to convert to Orthodoxy. I am just voraciously reading everything I can, and I’m persuaded.

The problem is my wife is absolutely opposed. And I don’t know the path forward because it’s not going to be easy. If I stay where I’m at I’m miserable spiritually, and if I move forward it could create a rift that may be difficult for my family. I’m sure I’m not the only one. I appreciate what advice you could give.

Brian’s question is the first of several in this hour long podcast. The conversation with Brian begins at 4:15. In addition to being theologically sound, Father Evan’s counsel is filled with pastoral wisdom. He opens with: “First of all, how healthy is your marriage? . . . . Is there room for improvement in how you treat your spouse?” (8:55) What may strike some listeners as a tangential issue actually leads to the heart of Orthodoxy, where faith and spirituality come together. Father Evan’s advice is practical and comforting, surprising and challenging.

Go to Orthodoxy Live and give it a listen! Link

Robert Arakaki

See also: “Called Together” by Fr. Isaiah Gillette on OrthodoxBridge 5 June 2012

17 April 2016 podcast: Orthodoxy Live: Answering Pointed Questions About Orthodox Faith, Tradition, and Practice

 

Jesus Christ the Grave Robber

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Thou hast slept, O Christ, a life-giving sleep in the tomb. . . .

 

Holy Friday Service - Source: McBrooklyn

Holy Friday Service – Processing with the Epitaphios

Quite often on the way up to receive Holy Communion, I stop and venerate the tapestry icon that shows Christ’s body “lying in state,” surrounded by the Virgin Mary, the Apostle John, and the angels.  Unlike painted icons of Christ hanging vertically on walls, this woven icon is placed on a covered table called in Greek epitaphios.

During the Holy Friday night service the epitaphios is taken outside and processed around the church building much like the way pallbearers carry the body of the deceased out to the burial plot. Link  However, in an ironic twist this Holy Friday procession is not one of defeat, but of triumph.  Not of loss, but of gain.  The early Christians believed that Christ suffered death in order to destroy mankind’s great enemy, Death (1 Corinthians 15:26).  As we process around the church building we make our way back to the entrance of the church, this time the epitaphios which bears the tapestry icon of Christ is stationed at the entrance.  The only way to enter the church is to walk underneath the epitaphios.  It is a beautiful way of symbolizing the fact that our entrance into Paradise is through Christ’s death.

 

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Christ’s “Tomb” decorated with flowers

One reason why I like to venerate the icon of Christ’s burial is because as the years go by more and more of my relatives and friends die.  As I bow my head to kiss Jesus’ feet I think:

O Death, you have taken so many of my loved ones,

But you, O Death, have been despoiled,

You have been defeated.

For Christ having died has entered into Hades,

And has ransacked Hell setting the captives free;

Jesus Christ is our Champion Leader taking us home to God the Father.

Alleluia!

These personal thoughts of mine reflect the hymns of the Orthodox Church for the Holy Saturday service.  On Saturday morning we go to church to celebrate Christ’s descent into Hell to set the captives free.  Then we come back late Saturday night for the midnight Resurrection service.  Link

 

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“Hell trembled, O Saviour, when he saw Thee, the Giver of Life, despoiling him of his wealth and raising up the dead from every age.”

“Through Thy burial, O Christ, Thou dost destroy the palaces of hell: by Thy death Thou slayest death, and dost deliver from corruption the children of the earth.”

“Source of the river of life, the Wisdom of God descends into the tomb and gives life to all those in the depths of hell.”

Lenten Triodion Second Stasis (pp. 633, 635)

To be a Christian is not just to believe the fact that Jesus rose from the dead but also to trust him to rescue me as well from death.  To be a Christian is to have confidence that Christ is able to rescue our family, friends, and loved ones.  And it is to have hope in a world where death is no more (Revelation 21:4).  Christ is Risen!  Truly He is Risen!

 

Robert Arakaki

 

Heading to the Cross

 

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“Glory to You, Who suffers for, and with mankind.”

 

Holy Week is a reenactment of the last week of Jesus’ life.  Through Scripture readings, songs, chants, and prayers, the Orthodox Church relives the last days of Christ.  Holy Week is an opportunity for us to follow our God and Savior to the Cross.  In Orthodoxy’s sacramental understanding of reality, we are there in spirit partaking of the events of Holy Week.

On Great Friday we observe the Holy, saving, and awesome Passion of our Lord, and God, and Saviour Jesus Christ; the spittings, the scourgings, the buffetings, the scorn, the mocking, the purple robe, the reed, the sponge, the vinegar, the nails, the spear, and above all, the Cross and Death, which He willingly suffered for us.

(Holy Thursday service, p. 251)

 

Holy Thursday Service at St. Mary Orthodox Church in Cambridge, MA.

Venerating the Holy Cross – Holy Thursday Service

The goal of Holy Week is the Cross.  On Holy Thursday we hear twelve Gospel readings taken from all four Gospels.  This makes it one of the longest services in the year.  During this service, there is an intermission of sorts when the congregation is invited to come up and venerate the Cross.  It is a moving moment to stand before the Cross, knowing that Jesus is there because of your sins, and because of his love for you.

It is an opportunity for us to show our appreciation of Christ’s sacrifice by dedicating our lives to him.  To venerate the Cross is a far more powerful experience than hearing sermons about the Cross.  We stand before the Cross looking at Jesus’ broken body.  We reflect on our inner brokenness.  We behold God’s love reaching out to us.  It is touching to see people prostrate themselves before the Cross and then bend down to kiss Jesus’ nail-pierced feet.

We come back to church on Friday night for the Lamentations service and on Saturday midnight for the Resurrection (Pascha) service.  From the Cross on Thursday night, we follow Christ as he is laid to rest in the tomb in the Friday Lamentations service.  Then we await his glorious and joyous resurrection on Sunday.

For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

Because God loved the world, he gave his only Son so that anyone who believes in the Son should not perish but have eternal life. (John 3:16)

Robert Arakaki

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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