Talk About Counter-Intuitive

Ever played the opposite game? When you play the opposite game you answer questions with the opposite of what it the real answer. So when you say “no” to the question “Are you happy?” you really mean “yes” you are happy. You get the idea. One of life’s most confusing features is when the most real and the most satisfying and even the most rewarding path of your life absolutely makes no…

To Hear and be Healed

As I sat in the doctor’s office waiting for him to tell me the results of some recent medical tests, I have to confess to you that I was a little scared. Let’s face it, as a typical man, I don’t “do” doctors well! I had put this off and put this off long enough. Now was the day of reckoning. The news was good. What does it take for someone to…

Going Where You Don’t Want to Go

“But I don’t want to!” My 7 year old simply didn’t want to go to school that day. She didn’t want to, and that fact alone should have released her from her obligation to attend first grade class that day. “I don’t want to!” Imagine her surprise when her father, the mean ogre forcing her to do what she didn’t want to do, informed her that her momentary desire did not overwhelm…

Always Look on the Bright Side of Life

I can’t help but hear whistling when I think of the title of today’s reflection. All you Monty Python fans understand! We live in an age of affluent problems. Recently, a teenager from a very wealthy home was involved in a fatal car accident, and the accident was this young man’s fault. Another teenager had been killed in the accident and now it was time for this young man from this very…

Pay Attention

Funny, I didn’t know I owed Attention any money! Interesting phrase “pay attention.” It seems to suggest that attention must always be something I have to place value upon if I am going to be aware of important things. The truth is I usually only “pay attention” to things I already think “deserve attention.” But what about those places in my life that “need attention” that I am not paying attention to?…

Shrewd or Wise?

You’ve heard me say this before if you’ve been reading a while: Being shrewd isn’t necessarily the same as being wise. And the reason is an evil man can be shrewd and calculating, but only a good man can be truly wise. Now that doesn’t mean that shrewdness is always evil. Far from it. Our Lord told His disciples in Matthew 10:6 “…be wise as serpents and harmless as doves.” And He…

REPENT!

Today is the Sunday After the Feast of Epiphany (Theophany) and we read in our Gospel Lesson that St. John the Baptist has been arrested. Our Lord’s response to that new was to tell the people to repent. What does metantia (the Koiene Greek word that English translates as “repent”) have to do with facing reversals in your life? Let me just quote St. Isaac the Syrian: “This life is given to…

But WHY?

It seems the book by Simon Sinek “Start With Why – How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone” has struck a chord with many. And the question is “why does asking why help so very much?” The answer is found in knowing the fundamental nature and purpose of any activity. You can use a hammer to do many things, from nailing a board to a stud to breaking a window to even more nefarious…

The Spirit Drives

The Centers for Disease Control came out with their 2012 report on Births in the US and they discovered that out of the almost 4 million births in America, over 1,600,000 babies were born this past year to unwed women. You can read the entire report at www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr62/nvsr62_09.pdf While I truly appreciate the old saying that figures don’t lie, but liars figure, I can’t help but be struck by the almost complete…