Better to Be Sober!

In my old law enforcement days I served on the DUI Task Force in our local community. This was when Mothers Against Drunk Drivers (MADD) was just getting started and there was a real push to get impaired drivers off the road. We had to do extensive training on just how alcoholic beverages or any intoxicant affected a person’s ability to safely operate their car. One tool we had was a car that was rigged to simulate the slowed reaction time that happens to a person when they are drunk. It really got the attention of teens as they tried to drive that car and realized they were really in danger if they were drunk behind the wheel.

Turns out that what’s true of physical intoxication is true of spiritual intoxication too!

Look at our lesson today in Proverbs 23:15-24:5:

My son, if your heart is wise, my heart too will be glad. My soul will rejoice when your lips speak what is right. Let not your heart envy sinners, but continue in the fear of the LORD all the day. Surely there is a future, and your hope will not be cut off. Hear, my son, and be wise, and direct your mind in the way. Be not among winebibbers, or among gluttonous eaters of meat; for the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty, and drowsiness will clothe a man with rags. Hearken to your father who begot you, and do not despise your mother when she is old. Buy truth, and do not sell it; buy wisdom, instruction, and understanding. The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice; he who begets a wise son will be glad in him. Let your father and mother be glad, let her who bore you rejoice. My son, give me your heart, and let your eyes observe my ways. For a harlot is a deep pit; an adventuress is a narrow well. She lies in wait like a robber and increases the faithless among men. Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaining? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes? Those who tarry long over wine, those who go to try mixed wine. Do not look at wine when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup and goes down smoothly. At the last it bites like a serpent, and stings like an adder. Your eyes will see strange things, and your mind utter perverse things. You will be like one who lies down in the midst of the sea, like one who lies on the top of a mast. “They struck me,” you will say, “but I was not hurt; they beat me, but I did not feel it. When shall I awake? I will seek another drink.” Be not envious of evil men, nor desire to be with them; for their minds devise violence, and their lips talk of mischief. By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches. A wise man is mightier than a strong man, and a man of knowledge than he who has strength.

The real power of the wisdom of physical fasting that is at the heart of Great Lent is to wake us up to how we are made “sluggish” in our lives by the intoxicating effects of “too much” on our everyday lives.

We humans don’t live well drunk, both physically and spiritually.

So, the Church gives us the wisdom to sober us up so that life doesn’t catch us off guard and we don’t run our lives into the ditch of bad choices and short sighted mistakes.

But, the only way to sober up is to admit we have to discipline our desires and make them our servants and not our masters. And the only way to do that is to insist that our desires obey truth and not be indulged just because we “want” something or someone! We have to fast to be sober. We have to learn to say “no” to good things for a short period of time SO THAT those good things don’t make us sluggish and drunk and unable to see trouble coming! Our first parents, Adam and Eve, were asked to fast from only one tree, and they failed. Now we have to undo their short sightedness and grow up so that we are not drunk and unable to steer our lives in the right direction.

Today, are you sober? Are you clear headed enough to see trouble coming? Can you navigate your life well? If you allow the wisdom of the Faith to keep you clear headed, you’ll be Orthodox on Purpose!

One comment:

  1. Father, today, I will admit was the first time I have really taken the time to read your daily prayers. It will not be the last! I happened to read your message about those who choose to be drunks, imbibing to serve themselves, etc. I happen to be a SAC, substance abuse counselor, in Atlanta since the 1970’s, so it interested me. However, I came to my computer for another reason altogether, but God steered me to your message and as I read, I knew the message was for me as a person who is selfish, who indulges in material things, whatever makes me happy. I don’t fast dues to dietary issues, that’s for real. But as a cradle Orthodox, I was raised to fast, even to not having anytning after midnight Saturdays in order to take communion on Sunday. I know what to do, just don’t do it. Today, I realized I am Orthodox in name but not in practice. I ask God’s forgiveness and thank you.

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