{"id":2400,"date":"2012-06-15T14:04:02","date_gmt":"2012-06-15T18:04:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/roadsfromemmaus.org\/?p=2400"},"modified":"2012-06-15T14:04:02","modified_gmt":"2012-06-15T18:04:02","slug":"why-cant-god-love-me-the-way-i-am","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ancientfaith.com\/asd\/2012\/06\/15\/why-cant-god-love-me-the-way-i-am\/","title":{"rendered":"Why can’t God love me the way I am?"},"content":{"rendered":"

One of the perhaps most pressing theological questions of our time and place is answered beautifully in this post<\/a> from Jim John Marks:<\/p>\n

The question is not \u201cwhy can\u2019t God love me the way I am\u201d, the question is \u201cwhy can\u2019t I love God the way I am\u201d.<\/p>\n

And it is the pursuit of the answer to that question which opens the door to a discussion about why our behavior, and our doctrine, matters. It ends the false conversation around whether or not specific behavior or doctrine is necessary to be \u201cgood enough\u201d and so undercuts the contemporary appeals to relativism. The conversation then becomes about what the specifics of a relationship to God look like and why.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The whole post is so good that I really wish I’d written it. So go read it<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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